31032012-结婚，不结婚？

不知道怎么开始这个话题，我跟他，讨论到了结婚。他说他正在很努力的想办法赚钱，因为他要娶我。



身边的朋友都会说：“我们才二十一岁，离结婚还远的呢。” 或者：“我还没找到生命中对的人。” 再来：“哎哟，还没玩够，我也不一定会跟现在这个他/她结婚，谈论这个还早呢。”



的确，对二十一岁的我们来说，结婚或许真的太早了。甚至有时候我自己也会认为，既然还有那么久，那为什么要让这些未来的事情来困扰着我？但是，我突然醒觉，其实时间真的可以过得很快。或许现在的我们才二十一还没二十二，可能一眨眼，你已经三十岁了，就像我总是觉得昨天的我其实是十六岁的。



那一天，我问了家里那个比我老比我妈年轻的那个女人：“你怎么还不结婚？”  “还没存够钱买房子，结什么结？” 她不以为然地回答我。也对，没有房子怎么结婚？在这个时候，钱就扮演着非常重要的角色。电视剧里的情人总是说结婚就结婚，假的，怎么可能完全没有计划的就结婚？房子，车子，浪漫的求婚，梦幻的婚礼，聘金，样样都是钱，所以没钱就不能结婚。抓着这个重点，我就觉得，其实如果现在有个很好的伴侣，即使只有二十一岁，开始计划结婚就没有错了。



长辈们总说找男朋友呢，一定要找比自己年长的，这样一来女生总是比男生早衰，如果找同年纪的男生当伴侣，会看起来比他老，如果别人问是不是跟姐姐逛街，我会不能接受。二来男朋友毕业后打拼个一年半载，事业有了基础，等我毕业后出来工作不用很长的一段时间就可以嫁人当少奶奶。再来呢，男生三十才是正值大展拳脚的时刻，三十结婚刚刚好，女人呢，三十岁结婚？不嫌迟都怕当高龄产妇。很不幸的，我的他不巧的与我同年。





不害臊的，我总是幻想着自己早日嫁出去，以后和女儿出去时，碰到朋友他们会以为我们是两姐妹。所以，我不能接受自己三十出头都还没嫁人生小孩。

钱真的很重要。他说：“爸爸妈妈照顾了我大半辈子，我要结婚娶老婆，怎么好意思向他们两个老人家拿钱？要娶你，就要很努力的找钱。” 想想，自己真的不再是小孩，未来是自己的，想要梦幻的婚礼，漂亮的婚纱，以后过好一点的生活，现在才起步计划可能还嫌迟了。所以我就说嘛，二十一岁计划打拼事业，找钱成家立业，其实一点都不早。而我感到很庆幸的是我身边的这个他，思想比同龄的人成熟，在我还过着小孩的生活的时候，他已经在计划以后的生活，至少结婚，是他现在努力的动力。












给在看着这篇文章的你，想娶我吗？要加油咯。=p

27032012- JJ happy birthday we love you.

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He was born at 27th March 31 years ago. Oops, revealed his age accidentally, but I don't think he mind about it, he is a gift by god for owning a baby face, guess much of you kinda shocked by his age right? Just pretend you were shocked please. *self-talking*



It's a fate. He was with us in this day, celebrating his birthday with Malaysia fans. Baby Jim and I both were so excited when we got this news. I can't believe I got the chance to meet up even celebrate his birthday in his actual birthday.

Meehee rush to the celebration after class.



This celebration+gathering at Mutiara Damansara Bentley Music Hall. Jam took us 1hour to got there.

Spotted the piano?! I can't believe I'm going to watch he play piano LIVE !!!!! OMG. It's crowded but now as crowd as we thought. We're extremely exciting when we see others standing aside but we're seated. Muahahahaha. =p

Camwhoring while waiting for the birthday boy.

These people arrrr, JJ fans waaa. They tried to memorize the lyrics online at last minute. Ni men jiang la ! ni men guilty bu guilty?! By the way, I'm actually categorized in "guilty group" too. =p 

I'm ashame that I need to grab photos from his website instead of capture it myself due to low quality camera which can't capture clearly under a dark situation. By the way these photos are hot enough right? He was incredible and talented. He sangs much more nicer than signature concert on that night, even though he had zero mistake on that show, but he sang really pretty well on his birthday. He said he was sore throat that night. LIE ! It's a perfect show !





It was the first birthday celebration on his actual birthday he celebrate with fans, he said that. This celebration even attracted fans from Singapore, Taiwan, Holland, Indonesia and China came by just to celebrate with him since it's the first celebration he with fans. They were all making nice presents with heart. Yes I didn't bring any present for him. Sorry JJ. 3songs on that night. Love u u, 那些你很冒险的梦, and ended his birthday celebration by singing学不会. How can I stop loving you? It's perfect and melted my heart, I mean your voice. <3




His wish this year, find a dream girl and build his own family. You know what? You will have a happy family, that's my wish, even though I always scolding the girl who near you together with my friend lol. Happy belated birthday JJ, JJ fans and I had a great night. We were so glad that got the chance to celebrate one of your birthday together with you. Thanks for giving us the chance. Love U U, 专辑大卖JJ !  生日快乐 :) xoxo, von.

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Imma a huge fan of him, although not that kind of hard die one. Don't ask me why, but I'm going to spill it out myself because I'm kinda proud of the reason behind it. =p

Baby Jim fell for him much earlier than me, 5 years ago, we went to his signature concert for "Killer" album because of her. I'm so so lucky in being picked by Phoebe who was the emcee for that show for games on stage while waiting for his arriving. Because of the game, he heard of my voice, I can remember that he praised that I sang well. Besides, I got the chance to dance with him, got near with him, even hugged him too. Owhhhhhh <3 Hahaha. Well that's enough in revealing, since the story isn't the main point of blog post today. Ask me for more details if you're interested, I'm so so willing in telling the further story lol.

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He's finally back ! I mean back to Malaysia, meet Msia fans after 2years time. Never missed out his signature show since "Killer" album. The show held at Low Yat plaza for his latest album.

We're JJ fans ! Goon and me have not meet up since last JJ signature concert. Yes, JJ always brought us together <3 We were so excited earlier when Goon goon told us that she got extra 2 VIP tickets. Well, when we thought that we are the so call "very important people", we saw there are 988 staff giving out VIP ticket on the spot, ARGH! You can see how "important" we are. :( We chose to give up the VIP zone, and stand beside of the VVIP zone. Yes we did an incredible extremely smart choice ! The place we stand totally was a "feng shui" place. We can see JJ damn clearly. See the photo below,

 Baby Jim are evil laughing at those people who suffering inside the "VIP" zone. Muahahahahah, why are u so mean? By the way, I'm the one who asked her to take this mean photo =p Me mean too?

Predicted he will be late in this signature concert as usual, artist use to be late, but not for this time. He reached at 3something because he needs to on air with 988 DJs. The longest period I've ever see him. He used to leave for about 2hours included signature time. But he appeared about 3hours this time? Oops it's not longest period, birthday celebration is the longest, tell ya later. =p

Why you so cute? Owhhhh <3

Sing well as usual, I'm always proud of being his fans, he can sing perfectly ! I love to yell that I'm his fans when friend of mine talked about him, something like his song is nice bla bla bla? Zero mistake performance, always sounds like magnet that can easily melted audiences . JJ I love you ! 

Remember to keep your promise, don't break it like what you did last show to me. *ps I asked him when will he come Malaysia and organize a big concert he answered me "a year time", well obviously he was bluffing me.* You said you will come and organize a big concert next year ! Keep your promise Wayne Lin ! 

Birthday celebration of him on next post due to the post is too long. xoxo, von. 

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I've been grounded myself for about 2weeks. Only job and studies, other than that, I stayed home most of the time, sounds so not me. 

Feels like quite a long time don't have new camwhore outcome.



3weeks holiday had officially ended, I've started the second semester of my uni life. Yes I'm no longer a new students in MMU, cheers. :) Short sem gonna be tough, that's what I felt, everything seems like rush and squeezed into a short period. Next week quiz? I can't digest still, holiday mood-no-off.




Monday blue, Tuesday green? Today is Wednesday, let's make it pink ! *crapping when I'm sleepy* Bless me have a great Wednesday, I wish you too. Good night peeps, Wednesday pink :)

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Once of a while, I truly believe that my pain my gain, my own risk. People who know me, close to me, they know the situation of my family, the situation of mine. I always thought that, friends exist for listening, at least that's enough for me. But, I've totally change my mind now, because what they did do me, make me realized that the people around me, they care about me in action, they does.


Lovely weather lately, I'm supposedly sleeping tightly this morning. I've been waken by some texts noises, I was shocked when I saw more than 2 texts in the morning, it's unusual for me. A text from elder sister, asked me to sell off her old uni text book, the extra income, as my pocket money. Another message from Baby Jim, asked me to pass her my voucher, she's going to help me in changing it into cash. Yes it's illegal, but I don't think Malaysia student really care about it lol, in fact I need cash more than voucher, if government knows about it, I believe that they wouldn't blame me and taking action in law? #actingnaive. That was what happened in this morning, enough encouraging, great morning.

Back to yesterday, another lovely day, because I felt love atmosphere in the air, not the couple one, but friends. Got a call from Baby Jim. She's at Sunway, she wanted to buy JJ Lam's album in order to exchange the entrance ticket of his birthday celebration. Unfortunately, a ticket an album. I was thought of buying his album by using the voucher earlier but the ticket can only exchange by buying the JJ album at Speedy. That's totally broke my dream. She paid for it, and told me not to rush returning to her. I knew Baby Jim since form 3, in my mind, she is the queen of mean, mean in talking, and we used to AA in everything. 讲钱伤感情, so we don't really owe each other money. This is totally not her style, her pocket money is less too. If you know her deeply, you would understand why I said so, and this is enough for me, enough touching.

Yesterday afternoon, chatted with Baby Shan in MSN as usual. I opened a web online shop named Reine's of B, if you noticed my spam. She asked me the B meaning of my shop, since there're certain meaning besides Beauty but we both are forgotten. An unexpected image appeared on our MSN conversation.

"I've got a surprise present for you," She said. It's too unexpected, can you image my feeling right at the moment? Still, tear-no-drop. LOL. But I'm, so so so touch, tear-nearly-drop-then. :) She created a logo+profile page for my page. A very very very very nice logo with the meaning Reine's of B, the queen of beauty. I love you so so much. Best shop opening present ever. <3

Daysss earlier.
I was about to attend classes at campus. Before I step out from my house, the lil one asked me, :"Do you have money to spend?" Freeze for a sec, I've never imagine the sentence came to me from her mouth. I'm the one who responsible to say this to her. What a shame, a failed sister. Thank you the lil, I always said you're the cutest. ;)

A man dated me for movie, I've finally watched John Carter with him. Nice movie :) I just wanted to tell you, thank you for your help, but your money is still safe with me :)





I swear, if anyone of you in trouble, I will try my best to kick who bully you, or solve the problem for you all. Thank you for what you've done. I love you all. 




xoxo, your dearly von. 

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Click Reine's of B!



Hi peepo ! Remember the blog post about the slimming product I selling? In case you forgotten, or didn't read since I know I got not much reader, kindly click here to review it. :)

As I mentioned in the blog post I've started my online business. Earlier my main of product were slimming products but now, I've moved on! I started to sell cosmetics and skin care etc. Instead of slimming products, I'm now selling beauty product. I will be selling anything that possible to upgrade our appearance.




They are in my list of product.

Beauty Maker cosmetic by Kevin which have not been launch in Malaysia.

Skin Care Naruko by Xiao Kai from Taiwan.

Leptin Coffee from America, besides coffee, there're many others flavour such as milk tea, orange etc.

MZT soft gel which have the best feed back among slimming product.

Miracle hot chocolate!

冰火透脂霜

These are only a part of my beauty products. I've open a friend page months ago but a friend of mine suggested me open another fan page in case Facebook block my friend page, her friend page been blocked. ;/



So well, here's my fan page ! Reine's of B ! Meaning that Queen of beauty. Please please give me a like and support this pity page. I will more active in posting here instead of the friend page.





Since my page is still new and only created yesterday, most of the products have not been posted yet. So if you're interested in some product but you can't find in my page, don't be shy to ask me, who knows I'm actually selling the product? :) More products coming up. Please do support :(

Thank you very much, have a nice day :)